Q&A: From Haircare to Hoedowns
The 6 hair products that keep me sane, cowboy boots that could survive the micro-trend cycle, and law school thoughts no one asked for—your burning questions, extinguished.
What are the best cowboy boots?
COS ($175) 2. Dan Post ($220) 3. Aeyde ($350) 4. Ganni ($330) 5. Frye ($398) 6. Free People ($178) 7. Frye ($199) 8. Frye ($199) 9. Disco ($310) 10. Jeffrey Campbell ($280)
Any advice/ thoughts for individuals considering going to law school?
Law school is challenging, expensive, and at times, overwhelming. But it’s also the best decision I’ve ever made.
Before diving in, I recommend taking a hard, honest look at why you want to go to law school. This might mean doing some inner work—whether that’s reflecting deeply, journaling, or even working with a therapist. Be brutally honest with yourself.
Are you pursuing law school to make a lot of money? (Which, by the way, is a completely valid reason.) If this is your goal, it will shape your approach. You’ll need to aim for a top-25 school, and if that’s not an option, you’ll need to find ways to stand out in an incredibly competitive field. Landing a big law job requires exceptional credentials and strategy.
Is your motivation tied to validation—whether from parents, friends, or society? That’s also okay, but be aware that this kind of motivation might leave you feeling unfulfilled in the long run.
Or is it a stepping stone for a vertical career move? For example, are you currently a paralegal, or do you work in politics or social advocacy, and a law degree is the key to doing the work you truly want to do? That was my situation.
Finally, maybe you’re unsure if you even want to be a “traditional” lawyer. That’s completely fine, too. A law degree opens doors to countless opportunities—you can run a company, work in politics, support nonprofits, and more. If this is your path, focus on gaining as much practical experience as possible during law school. Be proactive about internships, even during the semester. These experiences can help you figure out what you want to do, often more effectively than classes. Start early—it’s never too soon. There are plenty of internship opportunities even after your 1L year.
Once you’ve clarified your reasons, research schools that align with your goals. Look for programs that support your ambitions, whether that’s a specific area of law, strong alumni networks, or robust experiential learning opportunities. I knew I wanted to go to Brooklyn Law because of a specific legal clinic I wanted to be a part of!
From there, the process becomes more logistical: start studying for the LSAT, get your applications in early, and stay organized. The rest is about making the most of your time in law school. You can find a community of like-minded people at any school if you’re willing to put yourself out there.
Favorite piece of clothing, in terms of something that holds a memory?
My great-grandmother's chain and jade pendant! While it’s not technically clothing, it was a part of her daily ensemble, and I was always captivated by how its weight and prominence seemed to embody her presence. I treasure it deeply but feel hesitant to wear it myself—I’m not sure I’ve grown wise or seasoned enough yet to carry its legacy.
How’s the home reno going?
It’s going…The kitchen renovation has largely become my boyfriend’s project. My schedule has made it difficult for me to take on much of the overseeing, but it’s also his apartment—something he always planned to renovate when he bought it. I’ve contributed mostly to the design and styling. If this process has taught me anything, it’s that I am a terrible project manager. I can tell you which colors clash or pinpoint the best shade of red from a dozen nearly identical options, but managing contractors, electricians, and plumbers? No, thank you. Thankfully, were a good team in that regard.
The update! After some very stressful electrical issues and a two-month delay, we’re finally making progress again. The new tiles have been laid, and the grout is halfway done. Next, they’ll seal the tiles and start installing the appliances and cabinets. After four months of living in a construction zone, we’re finally beginning to see the outline of a real kitchen.
How are you balancing school and content creation?
I wish I could clone myself into two Mya’s.
It’s been an amazing exercise in challenging my perfectionism. Truly, I don’t have time for things to be perfect, sometimes I just have to get the work submitted. Whether that’s a school assignment or a brand deal.
I’m doing my best, but I fall short at times. I have to say no alot more than I am comfortable with and thank god to my overpaid therapist who is teaching me how to feel more confident in my decisions. That has been a game-changer. Sometimes it pains me when I have to turn down an exciting brand event, dinner, or other opportunity. Ultimately, though, law school always takes priority.
This semester, I’m fortunate that my classes don’t start until 11 a.m., which allows me to squeeze in shoots or content creation in the mornings. I reserve my evenings for homework and studying, and since I am productive at night, that works well for me. Still, I constantly feel like I’m behind, overwhelmed, and exhausted. It feels like I’ve been burning the candle at both ends for a year now, and I know I’m on the verge of needing a break.
I’m incredibly lucky to have an amazing support system, especially my boyfriend. He cooks nearly every meal, and manages the household (all while running his own company). Beyond the practical support—like filming all my videos, picking up packages, and making sure I eat—his emotional support is unwavering. In moments when I doubt myself or feel like I can’t keep going, he’s always there to remind me that I can.
What is your hair routine?
Scalp Cleanser: I use either the Briogeo Scalp Revival or the Derma-E once or twice a week.
Shampoo: Crown Affair Shampoo, I just ran out - it’s so good
Conditioner: Apivita - Nourish & Repair Conditioner for Dry-Damaged Hair, literally the best conditioner for curly/ wavy hair, or the Rhyme & Reason curl quench. I like to go back and forth between the two!
Repair: Lolavie Repair Treatment, once a week!
Other Bits and Bobs: ROZ treatment oil, I love this stuff
What should I ask for for Valentine’s Day?
Blue Tartan Cotton Dressing Gown
The Best Matcha (a splurge but they can use MYA15 :))
Canon Sure Shot Telemax | 35mm Point and Shoot Film Camera, my favorite film camera
Skall Studio Sweater, 50% off!
Favorite Brands?
Here are some brands I love right now:
Leset, for basics & good silhouettes - The Margo Tee is just perfect
Lauren Manoogian - I don’t own anything yet, but I do go in very often to try on the
Le Bon Shoppe, the best socks, tees, sweats
COS, good prices - excellent quality, I have been wearing my new hooded coat from COS non-stop.
Soeur Paris, for obvious reasons
Donni, I think we have all drank the Donni kool-aid including myself
How do you budget for clothes?
I loosely follow a "one in, one out" policy. Whenever I buy something new (not vintage or thrifted), I sell something I’m no longer wearing or enjoying. This usually helps me stay on budget.
I also try to limit myself to buying one new piece per month—again, this doesn’t include vintage, thrifted, or secondhand items. Clothing is a priority in my budgeting. Everyone has different things they like to spend money on, and for me, it’s clothes. To make this work, I’m very frugal in other areas. I rarely eat out, including takeout, and I cook almost every meal—usually budget-friendly dishes like sweet potatoes.
I don’t spend money on beauty or skincare, nor do I splurge on facials, haircuts, or makeup. I also save on workouts since I’m a runner, and one of the things I love most about running is that it’s free.
For transparency, since I started posting on Instagram over the past year, I’ve been receiving a lot of gifted items. It’s still a new and surreal experience for me—being sent free clothes, often with no posting expectations, feels wild. I’m learning to say no more often and to find balance amidst the hyper-consumerism this brings. One thing that’s helped me feel better about it is giving many of these gifted items to my family, who don’t have the budget for clothes. This has made the whole experience feel a bit more meaningful.
I know this might be a bit off topic but I’m a new subscriber and would love some suggestions for a great basic leather black flip flop. I spend a lot of time walking around Europe in the summer and I want a pair that is supportive and comfortable while still looking chic… if possible. Any recs?